How much pain is too much? And when has it gone on too long?
Cats are notorious for hiding their pain. How am I supposed to know when it's no longer possible to keep my cat comfortable and living his best life?
How do I get my coworker to shut up about my dog's cancer treatment?
I will absolutely lose it if my coworker tells me to cure my chihuahua's cancer with herbs and crystals one more time.
How do I handle grieving for a stranger?
I'm literally carrying someone else's heart. Should I reach out to my donor's family to thank them? And how can I possibly write that letter?
Cleaning up the social media graveyard
Half of us want to leave my uncle's social media up as a memorial. The other half want to take it down.
What, if anything, should I tell my cat's prior guardian about a terminal diagnosis?
I've loved and cared for my cat for seven years. I'm afraid of an awkward conversation if I tell his prior guardian that he's dying.
How do I talk about grieving my girlfriend when not everyone knows I'm poly?
Finding language that encompasses the complexity of our lives is always challenging, but in grief, it can feel overwhelming.
What should I do if the worst happens to my son's dog while he's away at college?
My son is going to college and leaving his senior dog behind. I'm terrified that I might have to make a really hard choice without him.
Help! I need something to read!
Nine books about death and grief—that aren't here to tell you how to get over it—to add to your bookshelf.
Would I be letting my cat down if I didn't stay in the room for her euthanasia?
Being present, or not, at euthanasia can be a tough decision, but you should know you have a lot of options.
I miss having a dog, but I'm scared any new dog won't measure up to THE dog of my heart
No dog can replace another, but every dog is an opportunity to build a beautiful friendship.
