Cats

19
Aug
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What, if anything, should I tell my cat's prior guardian about a terminal diagnosis?

I've loved and cared for my cat for seven years. I'm afraid of an awkward conversation if I tell his prior guardian that he's dying.
5 min read
22
Jul
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Would I be letting my cat down if I didn't stay in the room for her euthanasia?

Being present, or not, at euthanasia can be a tough decision, but you should know you have a lot of options.
9 min read
01
Jul
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Guilt is eating me up: How do I find peace with it and celebrate my cat's time with me?

A reader is struggling with lingering guilt over end-of-life choices: How do you acknowledge those feelings without being consumed by them?
7 min read
24
Jun
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How do I help the surviving member of a bonded pair through her grief?

The answer to working with grief is always time, but there are some things that can help for a cat who's really missing a beloved friend.
7 min read
17
Jun
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How do I tiptoe into adopting a cat after loss?

I have some low-stress suggestions for exploring the possibility of adopting a cat without feeling like you're at a used car lot.
7 min read
13
May
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Help! I need altar inspo.

What's a gal with a tuft of cat hair in a baggie to do?
8 min read
06
May
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My child is going to outlive my cat. How do I talk about it?

The secret to talking to your kids about death is to do it early and often.
7 min read
15
Apr
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Is cancer treatment for cats ethical?

When does care become torment, and how much is too much in cancer treatment for cats?
6 min read